Thursday, March 4, 2010
Do you remember prom night? Most people would agree that there have always been crazy things that have happened on prom night. While this night is considered a rite of passage, there are some things that just don't mix well with prom. Alcohol and drunk driving are a given, but what about getting a hotel room? I have racked my brain to try and figure out what good could come from juniors and seniors in high school having a hotel room? The other thing that doesn't work well is not having a real plan for the evening. It's just too easy to follow the crowd when you don't have a plan.
As parents our goal is to help our kids make this a real night to remember, not because of bad things that happen, but because of the great time they had. So, how do we do that?
Be clear about your expectations.
Ask for an itinerary including where they will be, who they will be with and what they plan to do after the prom.
Discuss the risks of drinking/drinking and driving and remind them that if they do this and they get caught chances are good they will lose their license for a year never mind the potential to hurt innocent people in the process.
Consider hosting a prom after party or a midnight breakfast at your house with no alcohol.
Encourage your teen to attend Prom Night 4-1-1 so they don't have a 9-1-1 on prom night.
One of the best ways to show your teens you love them is to set limits and help your teen understand the limits are intended to make sure that the best laid prom plans are played out in a safe environment.
What do you remember about your prom night????