WOW! Thanks for all the responses!!!!!
In my last post I asked the question, "What constitutes an affair?" I received a number of responses. I think this one encompasses the gist of most of them:
"If you spend time, energy, emotions, romance, and yes, even virtual sex with anyone or anything other than your spouse, it is defined as "an affair". After all, if you are spending those things on someone else, virtual or real, you are robbing from your spouse!"
Two good reads on this topic are, Torn Assunder by Dave Carder and Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass.